Elizabeth Shaw
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1,154 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Sep 2021
Elizabeth Shaw’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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It makes a big difference.
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Um, it can seem more exciting to be with someone who's more experienced, but someone being more experienced doesn't make them a better lover.
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You can have a lot of sex without being any good at it.
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So um but I think the fantasy that, you know, there could be someone who's a bit of a teacher in that you know, that could be very erotic and exciting.
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Um I think also having someone who's very naive can equally be um erotic for some people.
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It's about the responsibility in all of that and about the uh the fairness.
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Um and uh
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And and also I think consent happens on many levels.
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Um so um agreeing to have sex doesn't necessarily mean agreeing to control or agreeing to domination.
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It might be agreeing to um open yourself up to a certain degree.
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So you'd want someone who's pretty responsible with you and caring for you in a very genuine way.
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I wasn't sure that Daniel
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was thinking of his partner, you know, when you asked the question, um, how do you think she might feel about this looking back?
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He hadn't given it any thought.
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Uh I don't know that his head was in a relational space, I think it was in a self interested space.
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Well maybe that's a reflection of his developmental stage too.
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Um it may well be that um you know, he he likens himself more to that adolescent time.
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I'm not sure.
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It depends where his own life is at.
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Um i it does sound like the central thing he was talking about was his
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