Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · When your partner's parents hate you · 15 Mar 2017 podcast

I think that's a it's a big load. voice-verified

While you're in the middle of it, you probably feel glad to have their blessing to that degree. voice-verified

But um but again it's their par your parents' stuff, isn't it? voice-verified

It's not your stuff. voice-verified

And it's kind of interesting. voice-verified

Yeah, look I and certainly my advice is don't let the conflict get out in the open. voice-verified

You know, once it's out in the open it's very hard to put it back in a box. voice-verified

So it's not it's not that you should go to any lengths to avoid it 'cause sometimes that's just it's gonna happen. voice-verified

But I think even if they really, really annoy you, it's much better to find ways to work around them or to manage them. voice-verified

um than it is to um to take them on in most cases. voice-verified

Now there's always exceptions. voice-verified

Um but I do know people that say they've had sort of real blow ups in their history and it's just very voice-verified

You know, a good fight clears the air, but there are some fights that it's a bit hard to recover from. voice-verified

So it depends on the stage of your relationship. voice-verified

But crucially it depends on your partner's relationship with their parents. voice-verified

If you have a fight with them and your partner's just standing there watching um or feeling bad or feeling torn, that's not gonna do you any good. voice-verified

It's not gonna do you any good with your partner, it's not gonna do you any good with the parents voice-verified

And it's gonna make you feel like crap, I think, 'cause you'll be left, you know, twisting in the wind. voice-verified

Um, I think in the end your fight is with your partner. voice-verified

You've got to really deal with your partner and to say, What is this about? voice-verified

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