Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · When your partner's parents hate you · 15 Mar 2017 podcast

And what what are you prepared to do for this relationship? voice-verified

So it's not to say, you know it also is really unwise to make them choose, it's really unwise to say it's them or me. voice-verified

That's that's not going to work for you long term at all. voice-verified

Um but you can certainly set voice-verified

boundaries around the relationship. voice-verified

Um but you've really got to understand, as I said earlier earlier, what this is about. voice-verified

You've got to have your partner give you a good explanation for what this dynamic is. voice-verified

And what they're prepared to do about it. voice-verified

In the end it's not really about the parents, it's about your partner and the quality of your relationship. voice-verified

Mm-hmm. voice-verified

have to say I can't think of one and in saying that you might have listeners that can think of one because there's you know, I have learnt to never say never. voice-verified

Um but I just I just think I mean I maybe there's there's a situation where you come along and you see that your partner's in a really sort of unwell, dysfunctional situation and you kinda hold up a mirror to the situation but voice-verified

I think it's just very difficult because there's so much flying around about whose agenda is it really? voice-verified

Um and and is your back up? voice-verified

Are you feeling insecure? voice-verified

Um and um are the parents backs up unreasonably because of their own biases. voice-verified

There's so much flying around. voice-verified

Mm it's hard to get your mind straight and so sometimes voice-verified

turning to friends or other family to say, Well, what do you think of this relationship? voice-verified

If they say, Well, I think it's got cracks for ten other reasons, then you might need to say, Well voice-verified

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