Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · Dealing with rejection · 3 Feb 2017 podcast

And to integrate the negative feedback, which is probably dreadfully unfair and unwarranted. voice-verified

so that you can kind of move forth and go into another situation without carrying all that baggage. voice-verified

Because it may be that by now it's altered the way that this person starts a relationship. voice-verified

When voice-verified

rejected, sometimes it can make you jump in too fast. voice-verified

Like, I've met them, I like them, I'm sleeping with them tonight. voice-verified

It can actually make you move faster. voice-verified

And the faster you move... voice-verified

the harder the rejection hits you. voice-verified

You know, in a way, you know, I think the more you put out of yourself, the more there is to lose. voice-verified

At the same time, if you got weary and then you slowed it down to the point of a snail's pace, that may not be good for anybody either. voice-verified

So I think trying to work it through so that you just... voice-verified

hold your ground and be the best you can be and wait to find the right person and be in a good place to greet it when it comes is the best you can do. voice-verified

Well, that's right, because nobody can make up for the past hurts. voice-verified

It's like having a relationship with a bottomless pit. voice-verified

There's nothing you can do about that. voice-verified

And in fact, it sets up the next person, because if they also just don't have those feelings, what are they going to do about that? voice-verified

I think this is what we're seduced into, that we're sort of two halves of a whole. voice-verified

So we're the half person staggering around trying to find another half. voice-verified

It's a very unattractive voice-verified

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