Elizabeth Shaw
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1,154 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Sep 2021
Elizabeth Shaw’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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it has it has been a very positive experience knowing her but it has it has let you know you know because you know exactly as you said i think it's a good thing to say that that you can feel that she's you know she's looking for something longer term and that's made you realize that you're really not um and that it would be unfair to continue the relationship on those on those terms um so i think it's it is just stating it as it is um of course she's going to
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think that probably that's something to do with her because we're so taught in movies that, you know, love will prevail and that if you really loved her, you'd get past your lack of readiness.
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Um, but, but once you've had a few relationships, you realize that life's never that simple and you often, there's a real dose of pragmatism and sometimes you just know what you know and it's, and love doesn't prevail, you know, it's, uh,
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not how it is.
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No,
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think if you are genuine about it, which you sound like you are if you can really say that and maybe reference it to the way in which you've really felt her affection for you, whether you want to call it love yet, I don't know, but to say that that's really made you realise that you're not in the same place, then I think that's important.
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Look...
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Being in a relationship is part, you get hurt.
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You know, you get hurt even when the relationship's going well.
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You know, hurt is all part of it.
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I think it's whether you can, so you can't stop yourself hurting her because you are going to hurt her.
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But I think leaving her with a good impression of herself is the greatest kindness that you can do in the scheme of things and trying to be decent and authentic in what you say.
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That's the best of how you hurt someone.
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Well, I think she's doing the right thing in that going to therapy just helps you integrate the feedback you've had and to maybe be in another relationship that is really focused on helping you work that out because friends and family are very supportive.
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But in the end, you know, you can be glad of that.
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If you've got a lot of self-esteem, when your friends say, well, we love you, you really take that in and say, well, of course, I'm terribly lovable now.
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But if you just feel really horrible inside, your friends, you start to think they're just fooling with you or trying to dress up a bad situation.
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So I think in some ways there's a point where going to therapy to try and say, well, how can I look at myself and what part I play?
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