Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · Dealing with rejection · 3 Feb 2017 podcast

And I've seen people give lists and lists and, no, that's not enough, I need more. voice-verified

And I think being caught up in that, you could end up really feeling voice-verified

crushing somebody else's self-esteem by floundering around to come up with an explanation when sometimes packaging it up that I know this is really hurtful and it's really painful but I just don't have the feelings I used to have that would be kinder voice-verified

do. voice-verified

Um, I mean, I guess there's a, there's a couple of things just on the, on the back of that, that caller that I do think it's really important that if you're in the dating game, then, um, because you, rejection is part of it, you know, it's, it's very, it's a very special thing as we know to find someone who likes you to the same degree that you like them, you know, voice-verified

hard. voice-verified

Yeah. voice-verified

in which case you've actually got to be able to handle rejection. voice-verified

So in some ways being more self-protective, saying, well, now that I know what's out there, I'm actually not going to sleep with the person until I'm sure they're actually in the zone to date. voice-verified

And if they're out there having a rebound experience, I'm not going to put myself out there. voice-verified

So I do think it's really important that how we handle rejection is partly what shape we're in to start with. voice-verified

And I think being clear... voice-verified

is important, that's different to what just happened there because I just think that's really shitty behaviour where someone says, you know, as if you were some control group, you know, I've got my girlfriend and then I'll just set up a comparison and see what I think. voice-verified

I think that's just voice-verified

behaviour and that's different. voice-verified

It's the same but it's also different to, I guess, what we're talking about when maybe two people were in it for some reasonable reasons. voice-verified

Yeah. voice-verified

Well, look, I think that's true. voice-verified

I think if you went into it because you felt you were ready and you've realised you're not ready and, in fact, even if you were ready, maybe this person isn't as right for you, then, you know, I guess it is about saying that, you know, you have enjoyed her company and... voice-verified

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