Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · Dealing with rejection · 3 Feb 2017 podcast

Well, they broke up with me by text, so what the hell, I'll do the same thing. voice-verified

I think when people haven't actually taken stock of their life experience and thought, well, how does this shape who I want to be? voice-verified

There's all sorts of acting out that happens, sometimes all over the next partner. voice-verified

Yeah, well, that's right. voice-verified

And even at a distance, that's the thing. voice-verified

You don't have to do anything terribly personal. voice-verified

Look, I think it is really important to be clear. voice-verified

Not clear you're awful, but clear this isn't going anywhere for me in whatever way. voice-verified

Because too many people say something kind of loose, like I'm busy at the moment or, you know... voice-verified

whatever it might be, and certainly with people who are regularly on the dating apps, it might be, look, I'm seeing a number of people. voice-verified

And I think it's just it's not clear. voice-verified

So I think it's unkind to not be clear. voice-verified

It's better to say, look, you know, I've really enjoyed your company, but I don't think this is going to grow into a relationship. voice-verified

It's better to be clear so that the other person is crystal clear. voice-verified

I also see people in longer-term relationships where... voice-verified

It's possibly because one person is saying, I really want an explanation, I really want details of why this is happening. voice-verified

The other person probably, you know, they get caught up in trying to explain and sometimes explaining can be far more hurtful because if, for example, you're just out of love with someone, which is not ever a just out of love, you know, it's not simple. voice-verified

But if you say, look, really, this is a good person and in fact it genuinely might be me, not you, it's probably better to say, look, I've fallen out of love than to get caught up in, okay, I'll explain. voice-verified

Well, I don't like how you eat and voice-verified

your relatives because that's about the other person. voice-verified

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