Elizabeth Shaw
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1,154 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Sep 2021
Elizabeth Shaw’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Um and that as she said that was fun to start with, but um that's where you might think this is this relationship's all about them and not really about me.
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Um, well look, certainly this is possible.
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I guess the motivations that we have in anyone we pursue there can be nothing to it and there can be something to it.
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So um I guess it's up to all of us to notice patterns and to be thoughtful about that.
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I mean certainly if you've had some experience and you find yourself drawn to a certain person, you know, it's always worth saying.
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Gee, I wonder why I picked that sort of person, what does it mean to me?
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The reason to work that out is purely because um sometimes if you're looking for something in somebody else and it's missing in you, um it can be just better for relationships if you work out that missing thing in you.
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Um so if you're looking for a a parental figure, maybe there's other ways to find that without finding it in a partner.
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Um just 'cause relationships go better if you work your stuff out, you know.
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Um but there's nothing inherently wrong with it 'cause we all have our motivations and some of them we're aware of and some we don't.
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We were hearing a little bit
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Well, it's so commonly said and like many stereotypes, you know, they often do have some grain of truth.
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Um but it you know, it's very much to do with who you know and um and yeah, like any generalization you should always be careful with it.
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Um but it's certainly true that um that, you know, we do get more mature as we get older.
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I've certainly met a lot of immature women as well, so maybe we need to be careful about that.
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Well of course this is the um this is the question for anybody in a long term relationship because needs can change.
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Age differences are just one of the many different um elements that you have to negotiate.
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Um I think a lot of people put things down to age or missed experience or and it's hard to know if that's always um the case.
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