Ella McCrystal
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first heard Jun 2026
last heard 29 Jun
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A lot of high-functioning women with ADHD that are late diagnosed spend their lives masking from the outside.
It doesn't look like there's much wrong.
So as soon as you stop masking, uh-oh, the real me is going to be revealed.
And the real me was the one that was told, you're too lazy, too noisy, too late.
You stop trusting yourself.
So you're more likely to be able to be vulnerable to manipulation, abuse, and coercion.
If I feel like I'm not pleasing somebody, they're going to be unhappy with me and there's a consequence to that.
It's not just about rejection, interestingly enough.
It's about being perceived as a problem.
That's a very good one.
It's a great one to start with as well.
So I'm going to try and answer this without complicating it, which will be very difficult.
When you're born, you're born without an identity.
Obviously, there's genetic expression and all of that stuff, but you're pretty much this core self, a being of light.
And you're shaped by your environment, your relationships, what you see, what you experience.
So your identity is largely based on who you're around, social circles, etc., etc.
As we're forming our sense of self and we're developing,
our neurons are firing and wiring together and they join through an electrical pulse.
And with every thought we have, there's like a chemical cascade in the body that we call the emotion.
And then that gets stored as a cellular software and it starts to operate the mind.
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