Erin Walsh

You start there, it starts to affect every single area of your life and how you think about everything from a conversation you're having with a friend to like how you approach a meeting to how you talk to your kids.

So when I wanted to make a book, it wasn't because I worked with famous people.

It was because most women I ever met had this relationship with getting dressed that it made them feel bad about themselves.

And I kept thinking, I'm like, well, this, that doesn't make sense.

I know, I know like what you wear can be transforming and empowering and, and life changing.

It changes how you're seen, how you're remembered.

Like, but what can I do?

Like, how do I shift that so that

I can offer that to everybody because the bigger purpose to me isn't like, you know, that the superstars we look up to exist.

No, they're there, but they remind us of the possibility that we can see within ourselves.

Yes.

about what you want to wear and you said this earlier and how that presents a certain version of you it it does people don't know what to buy but they think that buying is the solution and the solution again it starts with yourself i think it's like um well i don't know anything about fashion that's the luxury part like it's not for me like and they remove themselves from the game but like no like whether or not you like it you're in the game so you have to start you're in the game it's

You're in the game of being alive and being in the world.

So aren't you going to want to walk as your most supernova self and not be afraid to be that person?

What are you waiting for?

This is something you talk about all the time.

This is it.

It's not a dress rehearsal, but you've got to learn how to play the part, not just play it, but embody the part so you feel it of the person you want to be.

Right.

And then that starts the spiral of dysfunction.