Esther Perel
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Every time I think about the list, the checklist, the boxes, I always think, do you put as much emphasis on who you want to be than who you want to find, right?
I mean, it's like, what is this?
This is the consumerism.
I come with my checklist.
I sit in front of you in a noisy bar and I'm going to ask my questions and see if you check my boxes.
That is such an awful experience.
And if you think that in the middle of that, you're going to get goosebumps or some butterflies in your belly, you're off the chart.
Seriously.
It's so true.
It's also like... Who do you want to be?
How do you show up?
What do you want?
It's like so... Product, you know?
I'm coming to check if you fit the product.
Who do you want to be?
I mean, you want a person to have this, this, this.
Who do you want to be?
What do you bring?
What do you want to offer?