Gabriel Mizrahi
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The reason I'm harping on all of this is you said that you've raised your concerns several times about being kept out of conversations, but I can't tell if you frame that as a request for feedback. And I'm not suggesting anything. For all we know, you've done nothing wrong and your bosses are just really bad managers.
The reason I'm harping on all of this is you said that you've raised your concerns several times about being kept out of conversations, but I can't tell if you frame that as a request for feedback. And I'm not suggesting anything. For all we know, you've done nothing wrong and your bosses are just really bad managers.
But if I were in your shoes, I would really want to have a good handle on why things played out this way, either so you can try to fix it or so that you can feel totally confident about leaving.
But if I were in your shoes, I would really want to have a good handle on why things played out this way, either so you can try to fix it or so that you can feel totally confident about leaving.
But if I were in your shoes, I would really want to have a good handle on why things played out this way, either so you can try to fix it or so that you can feel totally confident about leaving.
it's a good question and we don't know, but it's something she should explore. Either way, she could approach this conversation by saying, okay, look, I'm getting the sense that you don't want to tell me where the disconnect is. I'm asking you to clarify because I want to contribute to the team in a meaningful way. And I'm just not able to do that right now.
it's a good question and we don't know, but it's something she should explore. Either way, she could approach this conversation by saying, okay, look, I'm getting the sense that you don't want to tell me where the disconnect is. I'm asking you to clarify because I want to contribute to the team in a meaningful way. And I'm just not able to do that right now.
it's a good question and we don't know, but it's something she should explore. Either way, she could approach this conversation by saying, okay, look, I'm getting the sense that you don't want to tell me where the disconnect is. I'm asking you to clarify because I want to contribute to the team in a meaningful way. And I'm just not able to do that right now.
But then when I ask how I can improve, how I fit in here, why I'm being kept on the outside of these meetings, I seem to be getting the message that I'm being disrespectful, like that I'm out of line somehow, which is A little hard for me to hear because that's not my intention. It's quite the opposite. I just want to be a great colleague. You know, I want to earn my keep.
But then when I ask how I can improve, how I fit in here, why I'm being kept on the outside of these meetings, I seem to be getting the message that I'm being disrespectful, like that I'm out of line somehow, which is A little hard for me to hear because that's not my intention. It's quite the opposite. I just want to be a great colleague. You know, I want to earn my keep.
But then when I ask how I can improve, how I fit in here, why I'm being kept on the outside of these meetings, I seem to be getting the message that I'm being disrespectful, like that I'm out of line somehow, which is A little hard for me to hear because that's not my intention. It's quite the opposite. I just want to be a great colleague. You know, I want to earn my keep.
So if I've done something wrong or there's something I could do better, please tell me. I genuinely want to know. I am listening and I'm eager to work on it. But, you know, like, can we try this in a new way? Can you help me understand where we are? Because I'm a little confused over here.
So if I've done something wrong or there's something I could do better, please tell me. I genuinely want to know. I am listening and I'm eager to work on it. But, you know, like, can we try this in a new way? Can you help me understand where we are? Because I'm a little confused over here.
So if I've done something wrong or there's something I could do better, please tell me. I genuinely want to know. I am listening and I'm eager to work on it. But, you know, like, can we try this in a new way? Can you help me understand where we are? Because I'm a little confused over here.
If your boss still stonewalls you after that, then she's not engaging with you in good faith and she's probably just a bad boss. And yeah, definitely time to start looking for another job then.
If your boss still stonewalls you after that, then she's not engaging with you in good faith and she's probably just a bad boss. And yeah, definitely time to start looking for another job then.
If your boss still stonewalls you after that, then she's not engaging with you in good faith and she's probably just a bad boss. And yeah, definitely time to start looking for another job then.
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