Gemma Cribb
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1,656 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2017
last heard Jan 2020
Gemma Cribb’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Um, I would really love to see it being taught in schools.
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You know, they teach things like debating and maths and all sorts of other things, but they don't actually teach people much about feelings and how to communicate feelings.
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Mainly we learn about it through our families, which is really great if you've got a family that can communicate good feelings and, you know, works through problems and you've got a good role model there, but not so great.
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if you've got parents that don't have the ability to communicate their feelings really clearly.
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Um, so there is a a real need for some kind of emotional skill, communication skill
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um education in our society and I don't think we've got that.
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Yeah, yeah.
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I mean by being non defensive and non critical yourself, so um as I was telling the caller before, by dropping your defences and just going, Hey, this is how I'm feeling and you know, this is what I'd like to talk about without sort of finger wagging at the other person, um, can generally encourage people to be less critical and less um argumentative themselves.
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themselves.
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So it's almost like you gotta show vulnerability and then sometimes what will happen is they'll show vulnerability.
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Not all the time though, but it's the best way to try.
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Uh what that text suggests is that it's all about that person.
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It doesn't suggest a lot of empathy.
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You know, as part of being friends on social media, you're in somewhat of a relationship with someone else.
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You've both agreed to follow each other.
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And when you block someone, yes, it's it's good for you and you're certainly allowed to do it without uh needing permission or without needing a
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reason, but it is nice to think about okay what might this other person think if I do this and and spare a thought for someone else's feelings.
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So I do think sometimes an unfollow can be a kinder thing to do.
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what do you think, Jamal?
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It's a really tricky one.
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