Gemma Cribb
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1,656 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2017
last heard Jan 2020
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He's very happy with himself but if you're lasting 40 minutes, please check in with your partner and make sure that...
enjoying it.
They're still enjoying it too.
And that's not meant as a criticism.
It's just more... I think sometimes when people have not lasted very long, they can get so overjoyed that they can go the other direction perhaps.
Totally, yeah.
Certain people prefer not to come for religious reasons and some people can't come because of, you know...
reasons, you know, different pressures, different sensitivities, that sort of thing.
Some people can't come because of anxiety reasons.
So the same sort of things that would make someone be premature would also stop people from coming as
Totally.
I mean in that situation the first thing I'd probably check out is how firmly he's holding himself when he's masturbating because some people can train themselves to come to a very firm pressure when they're masturbating which stops them from being able to come in a more sort of organic environment like the vagina.
But in that situation, whether he chooses not to come or whether he just can't, the best way to deal with it is to take the pressure off and to go, okay, it's fine.
You don't have to come.
You can finish yourself off afterwards or we can end this in a different way.
but then you've got to have really clear communication um and doing it communicating in a nice way so you know uh being very affirmatory and saying i'm really enjoying this but i'm getting really tired is it okay if we finish up soon and and and being very supportive of each other in that uh process
Yeah, yeah.
It sounds like he's putting a lot of pressure on himself and creating a lot of tension and anxiety.
And also when we're focused on performing, if he's only focused on I've got to come, I've got to come, what he's not doing is focusing on how it feels and the sensations and being with you and all the nice things about sex that generally get us into an arousal cycle and get us into
stimulated enough to come so odds are he's kind of doing himself out of the good stuff in sex and that's probably contributing to his not being able to come
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