Gemma Cribb
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1,656 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2017
last heard Jan 2020
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yeah it is mostly in the mind when you're with a partner um but as you suggested to jono training yourself not to come so quickly through masturbation can't hurt uh
to like resist.
Yeah, well, you get into a habit and a pattern.
So it's not that you can't do it your old way none of the time but mixing it up with other ways and other pressures and other ways of touching yourself so that you experience different sensations, different paces, different...
um ways of doing it just to help you start to get a sense and your body start to learn different patterns
or
be putting
I think self-pleasure is something that should be made a priority for everybody.
And I think you're right.
There's a lot of shame put on little boys for touching themselves and masturbation is still something that, you know, growing up you feel a bit embarrassed about and can even be told, you know, all sorts of horrible things like, you know, it's going to fall off and all that sort of stuff.
So I think a lot of people do it really quickly and they learn to do it really quickly rather than enjoying the journey.
They rush to the conclusion and starting to lengthen the process, starting to enjoy the build up rather than just the orgasm can really help.
And it puts you in the right headspace, right?
Because when you're with a partner,
It's not all about the orgasm.
It is about the pleasure of the build-up and the pleasure of being with that partner.
And if you can focus more on the journey rather than the destination, it's going to help the anxiety.
It's going to help where you are in your head.
If you can get a little more creative with pace and pressure and that sort of thing, you expand your repertoire and of course the relaxation, breathing slowly, relaxing all the muscles that tense up when you're about to come will also help.
definitely.
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