Grace Beverley

Yeah, even like the design aspect, there are so many stable nine to fives that are like in the design aspect and, you know, digital design, all of those different things.

And it's like...

you you don't need to go into like a quote-unquote stable nine to five that you fucking hate because you're just not going to stick to it um also an added bit of advice is i think that you should speak to some people who do each of those jobs like literally like message people and just be like do you like your job what's the worst part of it like watch people's tiktoks and youtubes and all of that like get some insight into it because i think so many of us have this view of what a certain job looks like or is based on the title or whatever it might be and actually the reality of

Like, learn as much as possible, try as much as possible.

It's not set in stone now.

Yeah.

I love it.

Great advice, guys.

Dilemma number three.

Yeah.

But it doesn't actually feel funny on my end.

It's like I'm the punchline more often than I'm part of the joke.

And I leave just feeling a bit embarrassed.

But I then question myself because technically they're just joking.

The other thing is I've been starting to feel a bit left out in conversations.

Like they'll reference things I wasn't included in or talk about plans, chats or moments that I should already know.

And I'm just sat there trying to piece it together.

No one's outright excluding me, but I definitely don't feel fully included either.

And it makes me feel quite small in the group.

I don't know what to do because nothing feels big enough to call out without it seeming dramatic, but it's happening enough that it's affecting how I feel around them.