Grace Beverley

And he might just be planning a surprise birthday party and then you've ruined it.

Let's think the best of him.

Yes, he could be.

I think...

When you build a narrative in your head, that's when it gets really difficult because you're kind of like... You're just going round and round in circles.

You've literally come to five conclusions in this.

And they may well be right, like a woman's intuition.

That's what I'm thinking.

But that's the thing.

Very, very powerful.

At the same time, you'll know better than us because we don't know.

As in, you know yourself.

You could be predisposed to maybe some anxious narratives.

But I think that then...

if plan one you in the moment you go why are you being weird or like something really casual a little like you're being strange with your phone lately like what's going on there like that type of thing like it's not like you're super early on dating someone you don't want to rock the boat exactly like it's not like that like that's your husband I think you could like a hundred percent if my husband was being weird with his phone I would literally be like

why are you doing that?

I'd be like, you're being really strange.

Like, as in like, I'd literally be like, you should do it.

Like, sometimes it's just easier to say it like that.

And then, then you can see their reaction, see if they're, their reaction will tell you everything you need to know, I think.