Hilary Duff
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And sometimes I might push it down and deal with it later or like I'm going to be tackling it right now.
But like I genuinely am like such a happy person that I seem to be able to like get through things.
Also, I think I knew from my parents' divorce that like I was going to show my kid that you got to like fight for your happiness.
And I knew that it was going to be better to do it when he was younger than it was going to be when he was like five and aware or eight and aware.
And then kids put like a whole different โ
element of, like, guilt on themselves for, like, their marriage not working out.
I was like, if Luca cannot remember this and have two lives that exist that he can be happy in and feel, like, secure in, I think we're winning.
One, you have to have a therapist.
You have to be talking.
You have to be processing the feelings.
And you have to stand up for yourself.
I think that was just the thing.
I was like, I have to just stand up for myself.
And the same thing could have been going on for him.
You know what I mean?
Like, so I'm not just like, oh, I up and left.
Like, it was a collaborative thing that needed to happen.
But you got to fight for yourself.