Jenna Trossell

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196 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Apr 2019 last heard Jun 2021

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The Hook Up · Beginner's guide to polyamory · 29 Apr 2019 podcast

Is it um that you're haven't asked your partner for something and all of a sudden they're giving it to somebody else and and you know, you're figuring out y you haven't communicated it the way that you want to.

Those are all reasons why you find it why you find yourself jealous.

And you know, being able to talk through those things with your partner or with somebody who's supporting you in some way can be really helpful.

think it's often a

Yeah.

I I was talking my my partner recently um had a new experience and they were telling me about it and I was going, Okay, I I'm w one of those people who wants to hear everything and so I was listening to them and as they were talking about this experience I'm like, Oh god, okay.

So they, you know, are better at at me than this thing and you know, um they're off doing this thing that I've always wanted to do and all this stuff was coming up and at the end they were uh my partner was like, you know, do you wanna ask me any questions or

Do you do you know how do you need to do you need anything to feel safe?

And I was going through all the you know, like, do you

you know, I was just freaking out about all this stuff and I was like, actually the the real core of this is

Has anything changed in the way that you feel about me?

and like, do you still care about me in the same way?

And they were like, Of course.

Like, you know, I love you, you're amazing.

You know, I have all these feelings for this person and that has nothing to do with the way that I feel about you and the the way that we we have not changed at all.

And so I was like, Oh, okay, great.

I can you know, I can f deal with anything but a as long as as long as this is still secure.

then if you meet that other person and they're taller then you're like, Oh you I don't

So conversion is the opposite of jealousy.

And it's it's funny because people think like if you feel conversion, you must not feel jealousy, but it's totally possible to feel both of them at exactly the same time.

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