Jenna Trossell
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196 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2019
last heard Jun 2021
Jenna Trossell’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Um but conversion is that idea of feeling joy that your partner is feeling joy.
And you have conversion for you know your friends when you hear about like their promotion at work and you're just like, oh congratulations, that's so awesome, I'm so happy for you.
Um and in relationship, it's like, oh, my partner just went on a fantastic date and they're glowing, I'm so happy.
for them.
And and it can totally come up and it's great when it does.
It's not necessary for you to be poly.
Like if you don't feel conversion, you don't have to like that that doesn't mean that you've failed being polyamorous.
But
But a lot of people like it it's in the poly community it's it's held up as the gold standard.
You know, you must feel conversion.
the same
that
We all look phenomenal.
I I feel like my brain will always make people into gods or goddesses or whatever, gender neutral f like
My my brain will always go, This person is so much better than me in every way and and is perfect and so my partner has now found the perfect person and they are everything and I will be abandoned by them because, you know, they they will just go and be with this perfect human and then I meet them and I'm like, Oh, okay, cool.
You fit in in this way and and that's uh it it's just it it for me it it just completely
releases that story of like, you know, they've they've met their perfect match and I'm inadequate.
Um so I like that because a and also like my partner has good taste.
hangs out with really cool people and like so you know when I meet them I'm like, Oh, okay, you're you're kinda awesome.
Like, yeah, I could probably see you as a friend and sometimes I'm actually attracted to them and that's even
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