Jessica Lanyadoo

Right.

Because here's the thing is, for as long as you have a child, they're like attached to your body for years.

So like still part of your body.

Right.

Yeah.

That's going to be very hard for you.

That's not like your happy place.

That's not an easy thing for you, you know, and you may decide to breastfeed and you may not.

And you may decide to pump if you want to breastfeed instead of having your kid on you.

There's lots of theories about the right ways and the wrong ways.

And sometimes the technically best way is wrong for you.

And so what it costs you mentally and emotionally isn't fucking worth it.

And and when we look back at your mom as a really great example, she sought the best way to be a partner and a mom.

And she made those choices because she thought they were the best possible choices for her to make in the chaos of life.

And now I'm guessing at her advanced age, she could look back and be like, oh, yeah, I could have made different choices.

I could have handled that differently.

Yeah.

That will happen to you.

That will happen to me.

That will happen to all of us.