Jessica Lanyadoo
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You need a plan.
You can change your mind at the last minute, but for how you orient around safety, I think you're going to need a plan, right?
Having a sense that your husband and your midwife are going to advocate for you in case shit goes sideways, you need that advice.
locked and loaded.
Those are things you can do for yourself.
And they're also parenting.
It's saying to the child, essentially, we can play in the bedroom, but there's construction in the living room and the kitchen.
So we're not going in the room.
The door is closed.
This is what we're doing.
Like, it's okay to have boundaries.
This is my capacity.
This is where I can keep you safe.
This is where I can't.
And I don't know, maybe the roof is falling, but like, this is my best move.
And I just got another little piece of advice for you.
Okay.
Do you like to write on paper?
Yeah.
Great.