Katherine Woodward Thomas

No power to generate a greater future.

So what we're looking for is what's your access to power?

So this skill of being able to really own your choices.

So an example from my life.

when I was looking at my patterns in love, right?

But as I was first writing, calling in the one, you know, 20 years ago.

And I saw, you know, my pattern was unavailability and married men.

So from a psychological perspective, you know, one married guy after another, it was really horrible.

I was horrible.

So to even do that, but that's what I was doing.

And from a psychological perspective, it's just kind of like, you know, ABC, because my father left when I was young.

married a woman who didn't want anything to do with me, wasn't allowed in their home, condition of their marriage, that I wasn't part of their family.

So he used to sneak out and see me.

So I'm the other woman by the age of eight.

Oh my gosh.

So you kind of get it.

I mean, it's very dramatic.

Wow.

You know, not a big mystery why I'm dating married men, okay?

Because I'm finally getting my dad to choose differently, which never actually worked.