Kelly McDaniel
speaker
720 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard May 2025
last heard 21 May
Kelly McDaniel’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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When your infant brain gets stressed, when your toddler brain gets stressed, the body has not developed enough to handle cortisol and norepinephrine.
Those come in much handier when we're older.
What they do is they damage the memory center of the brain.
So if an adult's telling me, oh, I don't have any memory, but I think it was all good, I'm thinking, this child was completely stressed out.
This adult now has amazing resources for coping that are starting to not work.
But the memories literally are not encoded into the memory center because there was too much toxic anxiety going on in childhood.
It doesn't mean the body doesn't have the story.
The body will have it.
But the body's waiting for the right guide, the right care, the right environment to open up and tell the story.
So if someone hasn't had that, the story's not going to come out.
The body knows it's not time.
It's not safe.
Our body's protecting us.
That's its only design is to keep us alive.
That's our body's design.
Attach, stay alive.
So we're not going to have memory until we're safe enough.
And that's the good news.
Our body's not going to flood us with information that we're not supported enough to have.
Danger, a threat is a threat.
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