Kelly McDaniel
speaker
720 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard May 2025
last heard 21 May
Kelly McDaniel’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Because here's the thing.
Tell me.
We come here and the biggest biological drive in our body is our attachment system.
We are more biologically wired to attach to someone than to eat.
That's how biological this is.
Our attachment system will trump every other system in our survival network.
So we're wired to eat, we're wired to drink water, we're wired to attach.
It's the strongest drive there is, which tells me that if we don't have a safe attachment person, it's gonna have a large impact.
So what's gonna happen as we're little ones and we become mobile and we start moving around,
The attachment figure that we have in front of us, we're going to do whatever we can to get that person to attach to us.
It's not going to occur to us that that person, our mother, or another caregiver might be too busy, too depressed, too distracted, not well.
That doesn't occur to us.
Not at all.
That person's perfect.
We love that person.
We love our mom so much that we will do whatever we can to get her to love us.
We'll go through whatever psychobiological gymnastics we can.
That ends up forming our personality.
Whatever we did to earn her approval is who we become.
Or she was in her own life not safe in her primary relationships.
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