Lauren French
speaker
608 appearances
5 recordings
1 series
first heard Oct 2021
last heard 20 Jul
Lauren French’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
Trend
recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 1 in all, peaking in Jul 2026 with 1.
Appearances
If we're trying to have penetrative sex for like five minutes and that's it, that's all, that's all we've got, then we're going to need a lot of foreplay and getting very close to an orgasm before we start having penetration.
And then consistency.
Pick your one position, if it's the eagle, Pile, Amazon, like whatever the names are, pick one, stick with it, do clitoral stimulation, either with finger, either with toy, um, and keep consistent with it.
And that's going to get don't try to change it all up and all the sort of things.
If you're gonna spice something, do something new, firstly understand that it's gonna be a playful experience.
Don't try and make it like we're gonna do something new and it's the most serious, sexy, like full-on thing.
It's gonna be playful because you're gonna slip, you're gonna queef, something's gonna happen and like it's gonna be funny.
So like have that as part of it.
Yeah.
And in doing that, you know, don't try to do like four new things all at once.
So, like a lot of people go, I want to spice things up, so I'm gonna give.
a toy we're going to do a new position it's going to be in the shower and it's going to be during the day and i'm like well that's just a great recipe for falling over and rolling an ankle so pick one pick one fun new thing you want to try warn your partner about it before you go to do it so that they have prep time and maybe suggestions like the fact that shower isn't the best place because water isn't a lubricant and slippage and you know and then kind of plan it out from there but don't try and reinvent the entire wheel
Just like add a little bit of new something to it.
So not having orgasms is something clinically referred to as anorgasmia.
So condition where you don't have orgasms so some research shows that's for women anywhere from 9% for general population some research shows that it's about 26.3%.
But obviously that's only people that are you know like self actually saying that they don't orgasm and obviously it's a pretty.
big topic that has a lot of anxiety and shame and like a lot of social context with it.
So I think realistically, the number is probably larger.
It's probably just not something that everyone wants to admit to.
particularly for vulva owners like a lot of people don't realize that most clitorises and vulvas take about 20 to 40 minutes of stimulation of kind of what people refer to as foreplay to get fully aroused fully excited to get to the point of orgasm so if we're doing like five minutes of foreplay and then some penetration that isn't actually going to be involving the clitoris or like not kind of giving ourselves enough time to really
Showing 501–520 of 608 · page 26 of 31
← Previous
Next →