When you’ve never had an orgasm before
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What’s the episode’s main focus on never having an orgasm?
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Hey, hello, it's The Hookup with me, producer Pip Rasmussen. Unfortunately, no, Stunnalina Gorge's host Dee Salmon today. Boo! I know, what the hell? This isn't what you signed up for, right? Look, I miss her too, but she's going to be taking the week off as she's got COVID and yeah, she cracked her out yesterday and it was positive, which really, really sucks. But she's actually sent in a little voice memo from bed because she wanted to be here and, you know, just check in with
you. Hi, everyone. I just want to jump on here right now and just say thank you so much for all your messages, all your love, support. Yeah, it just means so much. Look, like, I'm happy for Pip to take the reins on this one today. I know she's just going to do, like, an incredible job. And, like, I'll be listening and cheering on from my bed, like... Yeah, like keep the messages coming. Like I really appreciate it. And, you know, I'm going to get through this. So, yeah, thanks heaps. Okay, bye.
Oh, my God. What an influencer. Lol, I know your inbox is empty, mate. No, but seriously, thank you for sending that in. That has actually made my day. Thoughts and prayers going out to you, BBXOXO. Thinking of you. Wishing you a very speedy recovery. That sounded really sarcastic, but I actually did mean that, like truly get better because I miss you. Anyway, in the meantime, let's get into this episode about never having an orgasm. Right, so this is a topic we've wanted to cover because we talk a lot about orgasms on this show and all the different ways people have them. You know, like multiple stacked orgasms, edging, prostate orgasms. But we've never spoken about what it's like if you've never had one before.
And turns out so many of you haven't. We actually put a poll up on our Instagram. 1,500 people answered and we found that 22% of you said you've never had one, which is huge. And the people who said they've never experienced it, well, 77% of you said it's something that bothers you. And that's why we're really keen to help out. In this episode, you're going to find out how common it is to never have orgasmed, why it's not happening for a lot of us, and some really practical tips and techniques to get you there. So, like I said, Dee and I have wanted to do this for ages and what kickstarted it all was a DM on our Insta from Darcy. She told us how she's never had an orgasm and it's something that's made her feel pretty awkward, especially during sex with her partner.
So it made me
question my sexuality for a while that I... Honestly, I thought I was asexual because of it. I went to the internet essentially to find out if it was normal and I got told that it wasn't normal and it was a bit of a freaky thing and that I should go get that sorted. I mean, I went to Reddit and I probably shouldn't have gone to Reddit. Yeah. In the moment when I saw that message, I was like, oh, okay, maybe I'm a bit of a freak. But then I had to think about it. I was like, no, it's fine. There's no issue. It's a thing.
How common is anorgasmia according to the poll and research?
You've been with your partner for two years now. Is this something that you've talked about with them?
I think I did mention it to them the first time we got together. And it's not been like a proper topic, but it's been mentioned. They know about it. I'm 100% aware. um i just don't know if they relate and understand how they can maybe unsure of how to make things a little bit more uh comfortable i guess if that makes sense i feel like they want to have that succeed which i totally understand but at the same time it's and i don't know how to help them so it hasn't happened yet for either of us with us together and and especially on my end by myself
If you don't mind me asking, have you tried on your own to make it happen?
It's just like clitoral stimulation, just general sexual intercourse. I haven't tried any other. I actually haven't tried any toys. I've been recommended toys, but haven't actually got to that stage yet. So with my partner there have been points where it gets to a point where I guess you could say it's close and I will describe it to them but for me it almost gets to a point where it's uncomfortable and I've been told we'll be recommended to kind of push through that because then apparently the orgasm will come after that but I just can't seem to push through that because it just it physically it's too much for me it gets a little too far too sensitive and
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