Lindsey Metselaar

The shit trope. The shit's coming back. Bring back the shits.

Yeah. Well, what's funny is that I always thought that I was an expert, right? Like I was that overconfident dater from the beginning where I thought that I was doing everything right all the time until I was really badly dumped. And it was kind of like a wake up call where I was like, Oh my God, you know, I'm not doing the right things or I'm not as good as I think I am.

Yeah. Well, what's funny is that I always thought that I was an expert, right? Like I was that overconfident dater from the beginning where I thought that I was doing everything right all the time until I was really badly dumped. And it was kind of like a wake up call where I was like, Oh my God, you know, I'm not doing the right things or I'm not as good as I think I am.

Yeah. Well, what's funny is that I always thought that I was an expert, right? Like I was that overconfident dater from the beginning where I thought that I was doing everything right all the time until I was really badly dumped. And it was kind of like a wake up call where I was like, Oh my God, you know, I'm not doing the right things or I'm not as good as I think I am.

And the reason I thought I was good was because I was always great at helping friends text and like the banter stuff. That was like something I was confident about that. I knew what I was doing, but when it came to, and like, I could get, I can get people to date me. Right. But then when it came to like long lasting relationships, it was a little bit harder. Um,

And the reason I thought I was good was because I was always great at helping friends text and like the banter stuff. That was like something I was confident about that. I knew what I was doing, but when it came to, and like, I could get, I can get people to date me. Right. But then when it came to like long lasting relationships, it was a little bit harder. Um,

And the reason I thought I was good was because I was always great at helping friends text and like the banter stuff. That was like something I was confident about that. I knew what I was doing, but when it came to, and like, I could get, I can get people to date me. Right. But then when it came to like long lasting relationships, it was a little bit harder. Um,

And so I had a friend come over and we were just kind of talking about our dating life. And this was like five years ago. And I was like, why don't we just record this conversation? There is no podcast out there that's about dating right now. It's like news and crime. And I feel like other people can relate to this conversation.

And so I had a friend come over and we were just kind of talking about our dating life. And this was like five years ago. And I was like, why don't we just record this conversation? There is no podcast out there that's about dating right now. It's like news and crime. And I feel like other people can relate to this conversation.

And so I had a friend come over and we were just kind of talking about our dating life. And this was like five years ago. And I was like, why don't we just record this conversation? There is no podcast out there that's about dating right now. It's like news and crime. And I feel like other people can relate to this conversation.

chaos that is dating, especially in New York City, but as a millennial. And so we just recorded it and we released it. And the rest is history.

chaos that is dating, especially in New York City, but as a millennial. And so we just recorded it and we released it. And the rest is history.

chaos that is dating, especially in New York City, but as a millennial. And so we just recorded it and we released it. And the rest is history.

Millennials have so many different mediums when it comes to dating. It is all of these different ways to communicate. So Snapchat, Instagram, TikTok, Pinterest, Venmo, like anything is a dating app to millennials. And so it gets really complicated. Like we're overstimulated. We just have too many different modes of communication that often we're not communicating at all as millennials.

Millennials have so many different mediums when it comes to dating. It is all of these different ways to communicate. So Snapchat, Instagram, TikTok, Pinterest, Venmo, like anything is a dating app to millennials. And so it gets really complicated. Like we're overstimulated. We just have too many different modes of communication that often we're not communicating at all as millennials.

Millennials have so many different mediums when it comes to dating. It is all of these different ways to communicate. So Snapchat, Instagram, TikTok, Pinterest, Venmo, like anything is a dating app to millennials. And so it gets really complicated. Like we're overstimulated. We just have too many different modes of communication that often we're not communicating at all as millennials.

And with the dating apps, which everyone has, I guess every generation has, but... we get really desensitized to just like swiping and swiping and swiping. And so I think it's just between communication struggles and having too many options. As a millennial dater, it can be really hard to sift through the noise and actually stick with something.

And with the dating apps, which everyone has, I guess every generation has, but... we get really desensitized to just like swiping and swiping and swiping. And so I think it's just between communication struggles and having too many options. As a millennial dater, it can be really hard to sift through the noise and actually stick with something.

And with the dating apps, which everyone has, I guess every generation has, but... we get really desensitized to just like swiping and swiping and swiping. And so I think it's just between communication struggles and having too many options. As a millennial dater, it can be really hard to sift through the noise and actually stick with something.

That could be. It also could be because women are so complicated and so confusing. And I like will talk to women about their dating lives and they'll be like, I just don't understand. Like this person will talk to me forever and not ask me out. But then when somebody asked them out, like right away, they were like, Oh my God, he asked me out right away.