Lisa Bilyeu

And so here's the difference between, I'm like, babe, you are, but I can't turn to you to save me.

I think a partner is super important.

Having a loving partner that supports you and uplifts you, I wouldn't trade that for the world.

I need to be able to get up myself

And then we can ride off on the horse together.

My husband is the most important thing to me in my life.

But I have to have the ability to get up.

I would burn my company to the ground before ever doing anything detrimental to my relationship.

And I appreciate that you're standing next to me and you're there to uplift me and help me.

So I'm very clear.

But even in saying that, it isn't fair on him.

But what if you're not?

What if you've got a bad day?

And it's not fair on me that my validation and identity is built on anything else other than something that I choose to.

What if, what if, what if, what if?

I can't rely on that.

So discussing it with the people around you and then making sure that you're always going back to oneself.

And once I realized that, I spoke to him about it because...

I can't control what other people do.

Sometimes he's just like, but I like being your knight in shining armor.