Logan Urie

Practice talking to people at the grocery store so that when you do meet that person you're romantically interested in, you actually have the social skills to approach them.

Practice talking to people at the grocery store so that when you do meet that person you're romantically interested in, you actually have the social skills to approach them.

So I would first want to ask Molly, what are you not enjoying about the first dates? Is it that there's a lot of small talk? Are you just spending time in the shallow end of the conversation pool? How can you actually be talking about more interesting things? So I sit next to people in restaurants all the time on first dates and they are so painstakingly boring.

So I would first want to ask Molly, what are you not enjoying about the first dates? Is it that there's a lot of small talk? Are you just spending time in the shallow end of the conversation pool? How can you actually be talking about more interesting things? So I sit next to people in restaurants all the time on first dates and they are so painstakingly boring.

So I would first want to ask Molly, what are you not enjoying about the first dates? Is it that there's a lot of small talk? Are you just spending time in the shallow end of the conversation pool? How can you actually be talking about more interesting things? So I sit next to people in restaurants all the time on first dates and they are so painstakingly boring.

And then I'm just like, please stop talking about how many siblings you have. Who cares? That doesn't define you. Well, what the hell do you talk about? So a trick that I have for people is this concept. It's a Latin phrase called in media res, which means in the middle of things. So you can walk into a date and say, I was listening to the most interesting Mel Robbins podcast on the way here.

And then I'm just like, please stop talking about how many siblings you have. Who cares? That doesn't define you. Well, what the hell do you talk about? So a trick that I have for people is this concept. It's a Latin phrase called in media res, which means in the middle of things. So you can walk into a date and say, I was listening to the most interesting Mel Robbins podcast on the way here.

And then I'm just like, please stop talking about how many siblings you have. Who cares? That doesn't define you. Well, what the hell do you talk about? So a trick that I have for people is this concept. It's a Latin phrase called in media res, which means in the middle of things. So you can walk into a date and say, I was listening to the most interesting Mel Robbins podcast on the way here.

And she has this concept called let them. And it really made me reflect on this. What do you think about this? getting advice from people, hearing how they think. When you just exchange information, that's so boring. And that's a real reason why people get burned out because they're like, I go on the same exact date at the same exact bar, having the same conversation.

And she has this concept called let them. And it really made me reflect on this. What do you think about this? getting advice from people, hearing how they think. When you just exchange information, that's so boring. And that's a real reason why people get burned out because they're like, I go on the same exact date at the same exact bar, having the same conversation.

And she has this concept called let them. And it really made me reflect on this. What do you think about this? getting advice from people, hearing how they think. When you just exchange information, that's so boring. And that's a real reason why people get burned out because they're like, I go on the same exact date at the same exact bar, having the same conversation.

My friend Kristen calls this press play conversations. You have a tape in your head, you press play and you say, I went to college here. I studied this. Now I do this. It's like you're fucking bored. They're fucking bored. You're not having an experience.

My friend Kristen calls this press play conversations. You have a tape in your head, you press play and you say, I went to college here. I studied this. Now I do this. It's like you're fucking bored. They're fucking bored. You're not having an experience.

My friend Kristen calls this press play conversations. You have a tape in your head, you press play and you say, I went to college here. I studied this. Now I do this. It's like you're fucking bored. They're fucking bored. You're not having an experience.

How can you actually have a real experience where you're in the moment processing new things and talking and not boring each other out of your minds?

How can you actually have a real experience where you're in the moment processing new things and talking and not boring each other out of your minds?

How can you actually have a real experience where you're in the moment processing new things and talking and not boring each other out of your minds?

So I had a client who I thought was so funny. She was really cool, really interesting. I was a fan of hers. And then she told me that she was consistently getting feedback from people that she wasn't memorable or she wasn't remarkable. Obviously, they said it in nicer ways, but she just wasn't standing out. And so I said to her, come in with hot takes. Tell us your hot takes. What is a hot take?

So I had a client who I thought was so funny. She was really cool, really interesting. I was a fan of hers. And then she told me that she was consistently getting feedback from people that she wasn't memorable or she wasn't remarkable. Obviously, they said it in nicer ways, but she just wasn't standing out. And so I said to her, come in with hot takes. Tell us your hot takes. What is a hot take?

So I had a client who I thought was so funny. She was really cool, really interesting. I was a fan of hers. And then she told me that she was consistently getting feedback from people that she wasn't memorable or she wasn't remarkable. Obviously, they said it in nicer ways, but she just wasn't standing out. And so I said to her, come in with hot takes. Tell us your hot takes. What is a hot take?