Mariel Segarra
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Or if you're not, then let your boss know, I'm doing way too much and it's time to pare back.
Maybe the letter writer needs to hear that.
I had the exact same thing to say.
Brittany Luce, the host of It's Been a Minute, came on to Dear Life Kit a few months back, and she had this great line.
She says, I'm going to give as much as I can lovingly and no more.
Because if you give more than what you can give lovingly, it either leads to conflict or you end up feeling shortchanged.
So I think it applies to these friends here.
I'll give you as much as I can that I can give lovingly.
But as soon as I feel any sort of bitterness in my mouth, that's the line.
It doesn't matter if I have kids, if I don't have kids, whatever I can give lovingly.
Once I'm unhappy about it, that's the line to stop.