Matthew Hussey

Like settle in and see if you can get used to this new feeling.

Because it's a new feeling.

If you're used to like crazy chaos, this will be boring for a minute.

No one comes off of drugs and then enjoys a sunset the next day.

I mean, listen, there's certain situations that are different.

Like if someone has kids, complicated.

And you have to be respectful of the fact that someone might be taking a serious amount of time before introducing you to those.

But if you're talking about...

like their friends or their family even just their friends that's a weird thing after six months if you haven't met anyone in their world to verify who this human being is no not a vibe definitely not a vibe great i think we're all agreed on that all right last one for all of those who are struggling with dating out there you've been seeing someone consistently great dates great connection but they don't follow you on social media

Wait, did you say they don't follow you?

Well, come on.

They don't follow you.

Listen, it's one thing if someone's like, I don't... I mean, are they famous?

If someone's very famous and they're like, I don't want to post about you right now because it's going to make your life miserable, trust me.

But he's probably not famous.

Listen, I don't think that it's necessary for them to post about you anytime soon.

I do think that.

And I think it's lovely when someone is just like, their private life is not out there in the world in that way.

But it's a bit weird when they're not following you or they're sort of like not having any interaction, not, you know, I don't want to create any kind of feedback loop whatsoever.

Suspicious.