Matthew Hussey

I don't know, eight or nine years, maybe?

It's crazy.

Closer to 10.

You see me doing this with you every time we hang out.

We're just asking each other questions and trying to understand the meaning of life.

Yeah.

how we've ruined ourselves in previous relationships and why we put ourselves in these situations, which is what I'm excited to talk about because you've got a new book you've been working on for really 10 years since your last book.

This is called Love Life, How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What.

not happily ever after, which is pretty cool.

And you and I are now finally in healthy, cautious, loving, abundant relationships that bring us a lot of joy and peace.

But we went through different challenges of trying to discover who we are,

how we can build ourselves up to really attract and learn how to choose the right person for us.

It took us both a long time, but we did it.

So congratulations.

It's amazing, man.

And so what I want to ask you about today is how do we become the person that we need to be to attract the right person in a relationship to become happily happy no matter what?

And I think a lot of the things I want to talk about today is one, becoming the person you need to be to attract the right person.

What do we need to do to become that person?

However, when you become that person, you create a lot of opportunities.

You start to attract a lot of interesting people in your life when you become more of a high value human being, right?