Matthew Hussey

Now the job is to live a little more dangerously,

and to start making space for the idea that there are relationships out there that will be truly reciprocal.

But when you first find one, it's going to be scary to you, it's going to be uncomfortable, and you're going to feel the urge to keep giving.

You're going to find someone healthy and you're going to try and give all this stuff to them all the time, and it's going to scare them away because they're going to be like, why are you doing this?

Why?

Just be normal, be a person.

I don't need you to do this.

That's what they're going to be like.

And your job is going to have to be to realize, oh, I'm going to have to put my normal way of getting significance down.

so that I can create space to be significant in a new way, and ultimately in a much more rewarding way than being in relationships where someone is dependent on me and can never leave because I just do so much for them and they absolutely need me.

Make a list of the things that are truly important for you to find in a partner and then be that list.

Yeah, I was definitely the Phantom in that.

Share each day with me Each night, each morning

Very excited about our guest.

We have the inspiring Matthew Hussey in the house.

My man.

good to see you brother it's good to see you i'm excited man this is this is our first ever interview in the i don't know i don't know what i'm gonna call this yet the greatness basement i don't know what this is the the uh something like that you know i like it it's very cozy yeah it's nice right yeah yeah so welcome to my home and to my home studio very excited about this

We travel the world together at different things.

We've been all over the place together.

We've known each other for what?