Matthew Hussey

I got a six pack.

Let me be shirtless and post that.

I make a lot of money.

Let me show the money that I have in certain ways.

Or I'm funny.

Let me be funny or whatever it is, right?

So we're still going broad of trying to get like a lot of attention from as many people as possible as opposed to focusing on being intentional about the type of person we want to attract.

And connecting takes us away from impressing.

Impressing sounds like trying to be perfect.

Whereas connecting sounds like trying to be real and authentic.

It's interesting you say that because I can't remember what it was in the last month, but Martha was like, oh, I didn't know you did this like 10 years ago.

Like she just found out something that I did in the past, but she was like, I never knew you interviewed this person or you did this thing or that's really cool you did that.

And just allowing someone to discover things about you, I think, is impressive.

That you didn't shout it at the rooftops in the beginning, the first date or something.

I guess when someone is connecting with another person the first meeting, first date or first interaction,

What is the biggest mistake they can make, you think, in pushing that person away from actually wanting to be curious about them and wanting to learn more about them?

What is the biggest mistake that a guy could do and a woman can do in their first interaction of a date?

And... Did they know you were British?

Yes.

It's some unique hobby.