Matthew Hussey

No one knows anything about you.

Yeah, exactly.

Now, here's something I'm curious about.

What is it that women actually want today in a relationship?

And I'll give you context.

I was watching this video online recently of some guy on the street asking a woman, like, what's your biggest turnoff in a man?

And the woman said, she was probably in her late 20s, the woman said, when a man is nice to me.

She goes, I know I probably shouldn't be saying this, but when he's too nice to me, it's a turn off.

And then turns into another video of a guy holding flowers at a restaurant who's taking a selfie video saying, I just got stood up by my date.

You know, we were having a good conversation online when we were connecting.

You know, I was taking the lead by choosing a restaurant that I thought she might be interested in by doing research on her profile and making suggestions.

We were having great interactions.

I was being very kind and generous with my attention.

I brought flowers.

I was on time and she stood me up.

and I'm trying to be a thoughtful, generous, kind man.

And I got stood up for it.

So what is it that women actually want today, do you think?

And maybe this is just this one woman that was interviewed saying, when a guy's too nice to me, it's a turnoff.

But why is it sometimes it seems like when men are actually trying to be good leaders, trying to be providers, trying to show up and do a nice gesture, here's some flowers, pick the restaurant, you know, show up well-dressed and groomed.