Matthew Hussey

And they're not spending 24-7 with this person.

does this person bring the best out of you?

And if your family sees that the person you're with, maybe he doesn't make as much money or have the job that I think I would want him to have or whatever, he's not there yet in life, but if you are a happier human being in general, if you shine more consistently, if you bring out the best aspects of yourself,

because of this relationship, then that's something that people should approve of.

Are you constantly having the conversation of problems with this relationship, right?

Oh, yeah.

When you're asked the question, why do you love this person?

And you don't have a good response.

That's a red flag.

And saying there's great sex isn't a great answer either.

We just have great explosive sex.

I love your definition of when you know that you're choosing the right person as someone who makes you feel most at home.

I love that idea.

And Martha, my fiance, she's always like, man, I wish I would have met you like 10 years ago.

We would have had so much fun like over these last 10, 15 years being together.

And I keep saying to her, you know, I wouldn't have been ready for you.

Because if I would have met you 10 years ago, I would have looked at you and I would have not have had the same level of...

I don't know if you would call it attraction or just like curiosity to be in a relationship because my nervous system wasn't built for you.

It wasn't built to feel safe and accepted for who I was.

It wasn't.