Matthew Hussey

A lot of us will get suspicious if someone likes us too much.

That's so true.

It's almost like if someone likes us a lot, we go, there must be something wrong with you.

But then someone comes along and they're not sure about us, and you go, you might be onto something.

It's like we date as if...

as if dating is a VIP nightclub.

There's great places, you could go and have an amazing time in these places.

They're serving the same drinks.

There's even better people at these places because they're not pretentious and they don't take themselves so seriously and there's just people having a good time and they're not trying to show off by the fact that they're in the right club.

And then you walk past one place and there's a big dude with a guest list.

And you go, what's that?

And you try and go in that place and they say, I'm sorry, your name's not on the list.

And all of a sudden you start wondering what amazing things must be going on back there.

There's nothing amazing going on back there.

They're creating demand so that you want to be in there.

It doesn't make the place any more valuable.

It doesn't make the experience any better behind those closed doors.

But they're creating an artificial demand.

And that is what so much of chemistry is, is this feeling of I'm

I'm having to sing for my supper in dating.