Michelle Chalfant

So instead, what we want to do is get curious about what the heck is coming up for me that is mine and start working on that belief.

So instead, what we want to do is get curious about what the heck is coming up for me that is mine and start working on that belief.

Yeah, and it's not about, and I love that you said that. That's a great classic example. But when people are pointing the finger within, I really want to stress this point. It's not about judging yourself ever. It's about looking inward with curiosity. That's all it is. Like, huh, I wonder what's going on here. I remember years ago, I was working with a group of people.

Yeah, and it's not about, and I love that you said that. That's a great classic example. But when people are pointing the finger within, I really want to stress this point. It's not about judging yourself ever. It's about looking inward with curiosity. That's all it is. Like, huh, I wonder what's going on here. I remember years ago, I was working with a group of people.

Yeah, and it's not about, and I love that you said that. That's a great classic example. But when people are pointing the finger within, I really want to stress this point. It's not about judging yourself ever. It's about looking inward with curiosity. That's all it is. Like, huh, I wonder what's going on here. I remember years ago, I was working with a group of people.

And there was a girl that had, a woman that had, she was a nurse. She'd been a nurse for 15 some years. And the nurse, the charge nurse, the main nurse on the floor, she said, she goes, she's such a bitch. I can't stand her. She irritates me. And you're telling me this is mine. I said, I sure am. I'm telling you, this is all yours because here's the thing. People can do mean things.

And there was a girl that had, a woman that had, she was a nurse. She'd been a nurse for 15 some years. And the nurse, the charge nurse, the main nurse on the floor, she said, she goes, she's such a bitch. I can't stand her. She irritates me. And you're telling me this is mine. I said, I sure am. I'm telling you, this is all yours because here's the thing. People can do mean things.

And there was a girl that had, a woman that had, she was a nurse. She'd been a nurse for 15 some years. And the nurse, the charge nurse, the main nurse on the floor, she said, she goes, she's such a bitch. I can't stand her. She irritates me. And you're telling me this is mine. I said, I sure am. I'm telling you, this is all yours because here's the thing. People can do mean things.

Let me clear this up. If you do something, if I'm waiting for a parking spot, I'm going to Whole Foods or something, and I'm waiting for this parking spot and you come ripping it in your car and you take my spot, I'm going to be angry. And we'd be like, what the hell? I've been sitting here for five minutes. Like, why are you taking my spot?

Let me clear this up. If you do something, if I'm waiting for a parking spot, I'm going to Whole Foods or something, and I'm waiting for this parking spot and you come ripping it in your car and you take my spot, I'm going to be angry. And we'd be like, what the hell? I've been sitting here for five minutes. Like, why are you taking my spot?

Let me clear this up. If you do something, if I'm waiting for a parking spot, I'm going to Whole Foods or something, and I'm waiting for this parking spot and you come ripping it in your car and you take my spot, I'm going to be angry. And we'd be like, what the hell? I've been sitting here for five minutes. Like, why are you taking my spot?

If I go in Whole Foods and I'm still thinking about it 15 minutes later, that's a trigger. So if you carry it with you and you can't stop thinking about it, you can't stop talking about it, that's a belief that's rising up to the consciousness saying, hey, you want to work with me or not?

If I go in Whole Foods and I'm still thinking about it 15 minutes later, that's a trigger. So if you carry it with you and you can't stop thinking about it, you can't stop talking about it, that's a belief that's rising up to the consciousness saying, hey, you want to work with me or not?

If I go in Whole Foods and I'm still thinking about it 15 minutes later, that's a trigger. So if you carry it with you and you can't stop thinking about it, you can't stop talking about it, that's a belief that's rising up to the consciousness saying, hey, you want to work with me or not?

But sometimes we're just angry because someone does something mean, but if there's no trigger, if there's nothing to work with, you kind of forget about it and you move on. But let me get back to the story. So this woman, Came up in front of the... She got up and staged with me. I said, okay, what's going on?

But sometimes we're just angry because someone does something mean, but if there's no trigger, if there's nothing to work with, you kind of forget about it and you move on. But let me get back to the story. So this woman, Came up in front of the... She got up and staged with me. I said, okay, what's going on?

But sometimes we're just angry because someone does something mean, but if there's no trigger, if there's nothing to work with, you kind of forget about it and you move on. But let me get back to the story. So this woman, Came up in front of the... She got up and staged with me. I said, okay, what's going on?

Anyway, I'm not going to bore you with all the details, but so fascinating because she had a coworker there with her. And she says, I have to admit, she's like this nurse manager or charge nurse or whatever she was, whoever managed the whole floor. She goes, she's horrible to everybody. She goes, I'm telling you, I just think it's her. And I said...

Anyway, I'm not going to bore you with all the details, but so fascinating because she had a coworker there with her. And she says, I have to admit, she's like this nurse manager or charge nurse or whatever she was, whoever managed the whole floor. She goes, she's horrible to everybody. She goes, I'm telling you, I just think it's her. And I said...

Anyway, I'm not going to bore you with all the details, but so fascinating because she had a coworker there with her. And she says, I have to admit, she's like this nurse manager or charge nurse or whatever she was, whoever managed the whole floor. She goes, she's horrible to everybody. She goes, I'm telling you, I just think it's her. And I said...