Mistress Tokyo
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600 appearances
6 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2016
last heard Mar 2019
Mistress Tokyo’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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interests at heart.
One thing that um there's a um a counsellor um in um Seattle called Betty Martin
And one of the things that she's gifted us with with some really amazing um work that she's uh put together, such as um the Wheel of Consent.
One thing that she's basically gifted us with is notion of
Um
What is being done and who is it being done for?
So, you know, in BTSM we talk about consensual power exchange.
So there is essentially a power exchange between um and I'll just, you know, explain it for the people at home.
um or wherever you're listening tonight.
Um the power exchange is where um essentially the person on the bottom, the submissive or the slave, gives over
ostensibly some of their faculties to the dominant so that they can take charge and take that power um and use that power essentially um for um to craft an experience that is towards the the um the desires um uh and the interests of both of the people.
Um essentially if you're in a situation where someone is not basically playing for both of you
whether you're on the top or the bottom in all honesty, but playing for both of you then that's an unhealthy relationship.
And this is where you basically need to be careful about the sort of container that you set up, who you set it up with, um and a sort essentially of course how you negotiate within that container.
Love and
on Triple J.
It's a cornerstone of any BDSM or kink scene.
Absolute cornerstone.
Uh essentially um if you do not negotiate a scene, um you will put yourself at very great risk of crossing boundaries
into areas where you do not want to play.
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