Mistress Tokyo
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600 appearances
6 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2016
last heard Mar 2019
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I do know that other Asian cultures do use rope um culturally for a particular uh significance, but um I think the one that's come to the fore in the world is really the Japanese approach.
like um there's def there's definitely um, you know, workshops you can go to on consent that are held by reputable entities in the community in Australia.
Um so basically that you can you you can read books on how to negotiate scenes safely.
Um you can Google imit like flow charts of, you know, is the person that you've just played with
a safe person or not.
Like I actually have them on the wall um in my uh community s space, which is in my warehouse, um, that basically people can read.
to see whether um to see what sort of like, you know, what sort of uh process you can go through to negotiate uh a scene either prior to the scene commencing or um after the scene has happened.
And if you've got some sort of unreconciled feeling
in your in your body or in your consciousness.
you know, how you can actually process that.
So um
basically it's incredibly important that, you know, the top the person generally directing the scene and the bottom the person generally receiving things acknowledge that they both have key responsibilities towards safety in the scene before, during and afterwards.
what I would say is that many uh there's not many people who can actually um rest in that position comfortably, usually people who are um highly flexible or have some sort of medical disposition where they are highly flexible, like um are hyper flexible or ha you know, um can get into positions like that.
Um but basically like um if if your partner can get into that position with comfort
uh and with ease.
Um basically make sure that they stretch before they go into any scene.
uh or any position which is like, you know, um gonna push them.
Um and if you're re if you really want to be conscientious about how you tie a person in that particular position, uh get go to a class or basically um go to a person who um provides uh private bondage lessons and get them to teach you how to do it.
Um it's um it's n something that I can explain only very briefly on on the line tonight.
And basically you need to check for circulation, you need to check for a nerve impingement, um you need to check basically um a whole variety of different things such as skin temperature, claminess, um the the colour of the person's skin.
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