Nadia
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Again, you're not listening to your system.
So it keeps you in this low level threat.
And then over time, it builds, it builds, it builds.
And we get stuck.
Well, you have, you know, I mean, just in my relationship, which is really lovely, I think I probably wanted to get on a plane, literally flight and fly away a thousand times every time I got scared.
I'd be like, I'm leaving.
I'm going back to London.
Is that what they call an avoidant?
It's not so much that it's an avoidant.
It was just that I was so afraid of...
My life changed completely to be in this love story.
And I had to let go of all the things that I had very well placed to keep me safe.
I had a really good career.
I was making my own money.
I owned my own flat.
I was in control.
Everything had its place.
I knew how to keep myself safe.
Then you throw in like a person that lives in another part of the world.
And I had to let go of some of those things.