Pip Rasmussen

What I also took from Lily's voice memo as well was like because it's the emphasis is about how you say it with intention and mean it and then your actions and it will take time for you to really realize if someone was real or not.

It's almost like, yeah, it's risky to do but you've got to take the risk anyway and you just have to spend time in the relationship to realize if they were for real or not.

And I guess like people are hearing this and going, fuck, it's so scary and so risky.

It's like, well, yeah, it's vulnerable and it's hard.

Yeah.

So that's a huge jump up.

6%.

seven percent six plus months yeah so everyone is a majority of you are feeling it quite quickly yeah exactly that's what i'm getting from this poll which is really like really really interesting and i think you know that's obviously why we wanted to do this episode about when should you say it yeah and not to be that person again oh sorry to bring her up again oh my god i

No, no, no.

But this is like one of the all-time interviews.

I'm still so obsessed.

We do love Dr. Anna Machen.

Yeah, it's like you don't really know them.

You've also got your biological like lust and limerence going like, oh, are they a good mating partner?

Should I like pair up with them?

And thirdly, I keep thinking about like familial love where you're like, oh, that's like years and there's like –

All right, so we're up to the bit in the podcast where we talk about when people don't say it back.

And it happens.

Not to me.

Because I timed it right.