Prof. Katriona O'Sullivan
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first heard Aug 2026
last heard 8 Aug
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If you have a marriage... I think we have tropes about marriage and about the way women are and men are.
Like, we have these tropes that men...
you know, her indoors and women moan about their husbands.
Like it's not that, it's like being highly critical to each other and that being a dominating communication style.
If you're feeling criticized or you're criticizing a lot, that is one of the big signs that your marriage
is in trouble.
And there's an antidote to criticism.
So the Gottmans, they're brilliant in terms of therapeutics, you know, therapy for marriage.
The antidote to criticism is saying, I feel, is owning your behaviour.
But if you're in a marriage where there's high criticism, you're doing it, you're thinking it, or you're getting it, then you need to find ways to overcome that quite quickly because it is probably... But it's OK if you say, look, my experience here is...
I feel that you are doing my head in.
No, I feel like unhappy about this dynamic.
I feel unhappy about the distribution of work in the house.
I feel so.
You're not doing this.
Contempt.
So this is like eye rolling, sick of him, sick of her, never like pure contempt.
And we, you know, we know what that is.
You feel it.
It goes beyond just being a bit, a little bit annoyed.
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