Radha Agrawal

So that sort of understanding.

Shifting your frame a bit.

Yes, that compartmentalization of in my work, I'm gonna be focused on really kind of wanting to improve service and product and whatever.

But in my personal life,

to really compartmentalize and say, hey, wait, let me really focus on what's going right.

Especially, you know, as an Asian woman, you know, you grow up in a household where it's like, you're only loved if you get an A, you know?

A plus, you know, so it's... And you did all right.

But yeah, so I think it's so important to take that audit and look in the mirror and ask yourself, how are you showing up for your friends too?

So that was a really important.

So going in, there's also another exercise I do, and there's so many more, but I'll share one more.

Thank you.

And I illustrated the book, too, so every page is fun to read.

It's not a bunch of words.

I really like pictures and colors, and it just makes the whole journey of community building a lot more playful and colorful.

So one more going-in exercise I'll share before we move on to going out is I have you also assess what I call your VIA chart.

So imagine a Venn diagram, three circles that you draw.

So circle one is your values.

The V in VIA is your values.

The I in the VIA chart is your interests.

And the A is your abilities.