Radha Agrawal

Yeah, taking inventory.

Exactly.

Auditing community you spend time with.

The second thing, this is what I did when I turned 30, and this is exactly what I outline in my book, is my own journey that's taken me from feeling like I don't belong to this incredible, connected, joyful community that gives me wings and lets me fly.

The second thing I did was I wrote down a three column list.

Column one was all the qualities I was looking for in a friend.

I just wanted to write down and actually manifest and call in what were the qualities I was looking for in a friend.

We do this type of audit again for our romantic relationships.

We do this for our professional careers.

I want a job that pays this much.

I want a job that has this type of vacation.

I want a job that, right?

Like all the different things.

And it is the most important, when I say the most important category in life to focus on, and everyone says, focus on money, power, fame, and building your business.

But really, none of it will happen or will result in joy or joyful life experience if you don't have a community being like, oh my gosh, Mark, high five.

Like, whoa, we get to celebrate your major win, New York Times bestseller list again?

Holy shit, let's go and throw a giant party for you.

You know what I mean?

Yeah.

If you're just kind of like writing by yourself in your room and have no one to celebrate, then at the end of it, you're empty again, you know?