Robin Sharma

I call her Super Chum because she's with me all the time.

And I have found that 90% of your joy comes from your life partner.

And if you don't believe me, and I know you're not, but find a partner, and I've seen this in people's lives, but find a partner who creates nonstop drama.

and see how your life looks in every other dimension.

It just consumes you.

If you hang around with energy vampires and dream stealers, it just completely messes up your life.

And some people get in situations, and I've seen it happen, where they pick the wrong partner and they're dealing with the implications for 15 years.

Some people, there's a lot of projection in relationships.

It's another old idea, which is heal what hurts you so you don't bleed on people who didn't cut you.

So a lot of people, we all bring our...

Our history.

Baggage is right.

We all bring our trauma.

We all bring our trauma.

And I find choosing someone who might have lighter trauma leads to a simpler life.

Well, the great thing about a human life is we get to live it how we want to.

So I'm in no way saying here's a certain way to live.

That chapter is just a reminder for people who are in a relationship or looking for a relationship about how important your relationship with –

a significant other is.

I was smiling as you were speaking because I thought about one of the other chapters in the family section, which is the 10,000 dinners question.