Roxane Gay

I really, really do because they're actually not going to listen to women for the most part.

They're just not.

And so I think men need to hold other men accountable.

But how much more do we need to do as a society to cater to men and make them feel whole?

I mean, we're living under a Trump presidency.

So much of what is happening is predicated on a lie that women are doing so well that it's gone too far.

And let's send them bitches back in the kitchen.

You know, it's crazy.

It is genuinely unbelievable.

not grounded in sanity and at the same time I have two brothers and they're amazing or well only one is surviving but oh no it's okay I thought you were gonna say only one was no no no they're both both amazing and they are awesome fathers reasonably good husbands and amazing brothers and

And so I know what men are capable of.

And for me, that's the standard.

Like, just exist.

You know, and they're guys' guys.

They, you know, they shoot guns.

They were both raising only daughters.

Oh, well, no, one has a son, but he's...

He's a very gentle giant.

They watch sports.

They do all of the things that are typically coded as masculine, but then they're also raising children and doing their share of domestic labor.