Roxane Gay

Why is no one banging on the door?

And having been a woman in her 20s before, the fact that men have not stepped up in the past 20 years, 30 years, 40 years, is wild to me.

Because it's really that simple.

Bathe.

Apply some deodorant.

Wash your clothing so that you don't smell like body odor and mildew.

Learn about something to talk about in addition to video games.

It's okay to like video games.

I love that.

I have two brothers.

Love them for their video game nonsense.

Look whatever you're interested in.

Legos, Marvel films, Star Wars.

It's okay.

But you have to also ask women questions.

You have to have conversations.

And I wish that older men...

would sit down with younger men and say, you're not getting laid because there's nothing appealing about you.

And a lot of them have decided, and this is where the incel community is so pernicious.

They have decided that the problem is that they're not attractive enough and that they have to like hammer their faces, which is completely mentally ill.