Roxie Nafousi

You're doing that so that they think you're a nice person.

Whereas when you're just trying to make someone happy, it's because you're nice and that's who you are or you're kind and that's who you are.

And it says so much more about who you are and how you want to live.

And-

When I think about this idea of being liked by everybody, there's also a part of us, Roxy, that doesn't want that friction.

A lot of it's just conflict avoidance.

Where we want people to like us, not because we so need them to like us, but because we just don't want to have friction with anyone.

And what you said, which I appreciate, is actually it's about energy.

And there's so much, if you, if everyone liked you and you liked everyone, there would not be that special friend.

There would not be that loving partner.

There wouldn't be that memory that you have with a sibling or someone, because if you liked everyone and everyone liked you, you wouldn't get that magic.

It was your energy point.

What you said about energy made me think of it.

You said there were certain people you just click with.

That's what makes that person so special.

If everyone liked you and you liked everyone, then who's that person?

They're just another person.

Yeah, to really experience the magic of connection and go, oh, yeah, we have something special.

Like you would never say that.

Yes.